Somizi gives new perspective on love and relationships! Somizi Mhlongo, a celebrated media personality, has opened up about his current views on love and relationships, revealing a shift away from monogamy towards a more fluid and honest approach.
After experiencing a high-profile breakup with Mohale Motaung, which ended in controversy and allegations of abuse, Somizi has emerged with a deeper understanding of himself and his desires.
A New Perspective on Love
In a recent interview, Somizi shared insights into his journey of self-discovery, explaining that he is not actively seeking love but instead focusing on enjoying life and exploring relationships without the constraints of traditional commitments.
“I haven’t found love again. I am just mingling to mingle. I’m just having fun. There’s no love. I am in relationships,” he said candidly.
The star explained that as he has grown older, he has come to realize his preferences and how they align with his personal identity.
“With age, you realize certain things; you discover yourself. I’ve realized I am possibly 80%-90% polygamous, and I am pansexual. So, I’m exploring. I am just living my life. I discovered that later in my life, and I am enjoying it. I am not committed to anyone, and I don’t want anyone to commit to me,” Somizi shared.
Breaking Free from Ownership in Relationships
Somizi emphasized the importance of freedom and mutual respect in relationships, rejecting traditional notions of control and ownership.
“I’ve reached a stage in my life where I believe no one should own anyone, no one should control anyone. People must do what they want to do, as long as it’s in agreement with the partnership,” he said.
This philosophy highlights Somizi’s belief in creating relationships that are rooted in honesty and communication rather than rigid expectations or societal norms.
Marriage Still on the Cards
Despite his current stance, Somizi remains open to the idea of marriage. He expressed his admiration for the institution, particularly the celebratory aspects of weddings.
“Marriage is on the cards. I’ll definitely get married. I love the concept of marriage. To be honest, I’m more in love with the wedding than the marriage, but I understand the marriage part,” he admitted.
However, Somizi made it clear that his approach to marriage would differ from conventional relationships.
Defining an “Honest Relationship”
When asked about the type of relationship he envisions for the future, Somizi described a dynamic centered on honesty and mutual understanding.
“It would be an honest relationship, not an open one. Open to me means you can date whoever you want to date whenever you want. An honest relationship means we have a conversation before anything happens, and we have to be in agreement,” he explained.
Somizi elaborated on the importance of emotional transparency, acknowledging that feelings can evolve over time.
“An honest relationship will be sometimes I wake up not feeling the same way I felt yesterday about you, and I must be open and honest with it,” he said.
Living Life on His Own Terms
Somizi’s reflections highlight his commitment to living authentically and embracing a love life that aligns with his evolving identity. By prioritizing honesty, freedom, and self-discovery, he has found a way to navigate relationships that resonates with his personal values.
His openness about his preferences, including his identity as pansexual and his polygamous tendencies, serves as a reminder of the diverse ways individuals can approach love and partnerships. For Somizi, it’s not about fitting into a mold but rather creating a life that feels true to himself.
As he continues to explore and live life on his own terms, Somizi’s journey is one of self-empowerment and embracing the fluidity of human connection.
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